The end of an era

Elicia finished fulltime work this week. She’ll be doing part-time until the end of December and after that a bit here and there as she finds herself able, but for the most part we’re down to 1 wage as of next week. And it’s our wedding anniversary today. And exactly three months until our son is due (yes, he’s going to be a boy!)

Anyway, more about that later. What’s really struck me today is how much of a change this really is for us. Work-wise yes, but I think I was expecting that to an extent – it’s really the first thing the husband thinks about. And the baby-care role for the wife – that’s another big change but again, it’s one that you know will happen before you start. But there’s other changes – one for us is that we’ve had to put our apartment at Mount Hotham on the market in order to make the new budget balance nicely. It’s a bit sad – and to me it really does signify the end of a part of our lives, the care-free, travelling part. I’m not moping – I’m sure we’ll still go on holidays and whatever else, and they’ll probably be even more fun with kids – but Hotham was an escape from the real world, a relaxing of the rules and a real icon of our ability to non-conform. And now it’s got – we will conform – we will stay in one place – and we will enjoy it!

Anyway, as I said, more about all that later – but if you want to check it out visit our apartment on realestate.com.au.

3 Responses to “The end of an era”

  1. Unordered says:

    You don’t have to conform just because you live in one place. Say no to truckloads of baby stuff and you’ll be non-conformist.

  2. Hehe – that is so true! I could write a blog entry every day just on the new stuff we’ve acquired (not always bought…)

  3. Ian says:

    Hope and pray all is well James.

    A blessed Christmas and New year to you & Elicia.